Mahatma Gandhi

"First they ignore you,
then they laugh at you,
then they fight you,
then you win."
-by Mahatma Gandhi-

First they ignore you.

At first, no one would understand your feeling. You would seem to be lacking in acceptance by the people around even though you have tried to be nice to them.

Then they laugh at you.

Soon after, some people would start to make comments on you. they don't think your thinking is rational. Some even feel that you are stupid.

Then they fight you.

The next step, that people will attack you and start to use methods to topple your efforts by talking negatively about you.

Then you win.

The last step, if you were able to handle each of these previous steps, would be success in your life. Having an idea of the stages gives you a sense of what to expect , so that you are much better able to control how you handle the effects.


Therefore, don't care too much about those ignore you, this is just the first step, and you will win eventually. Nobody can hurt you without your permission. What a bad guy am I! I plan to block some contacts in my smartphone, as a revenge for those disrespectful people. But what's the point? Just to show how disappointed am I, a friend that really use his heart to treat his friends. Some people may asked me, why treat a person so nice when he/she didn't care about you, didn't bring any benefits to you at all. I answered a person once, 'ngam key kua'. Now I know ngam key is useless, the most important thing is how you treat a person as well as how he/she treat you back. Thanks to everyone who give me the lesson. Feel a sense of deep gratitude for those people that still treat me a good friend no matter how I changed from time to time. I think of many more other things to be grateful for. Sometimes it’s easy to feel sad when you’re going through a tough time in life. However, no matter how bad your situation may seem, there are still thousands of things to be grateful for in life. It is clear to me that people who feel gratitude have better life than those who dwell on their disappointments. Learn to be open-minded. One of the greatest mental freedoms is truly not caring what other people think of you. Jenwin, your handphone is still ringing everyday. Still got tonnes of nice persons finding you. You still feel happy reading those sms. You are still a happy guy. *evil smile* hiak hiak hiak~